Let It Go

I've always been told 'why worry about what you cannot change' and I'm finally coming to the conclusion of how true that statement really is.

This year a lot of things didn't go the way that I had planned or hoped for. A lot faltered in the way of friends and boys, and I spent a lot of time over analyzing and over thinking and then one day someone said to me "is it really worth putting yourself through this? Do you really want to know the answers to these questions? There's nothing you can change or do, so just let it go." It was a major reality check and one that I desperately needed.

People spend too much and too many of their days worrying and over thinking things that they miss out on all of the good that is going on around them. After I got my reality check, I realized how much I had missed out on while I was 'bumming' around my house. Once I finally got back out and allowed myself to have fun I realized how silly it was to mope and wonder about the things I had no control over.

I know that it's hard to let some things go, but sometimes once you do you realize the weight that has been lifted off of your shoulders. People come in and out of your life for a reason. You may not know that reason but there is always one there. Every person you meet teaches you something. Whether it's just a silly little fact or a huge life lesson.

People come and people go. There will always be something to worry about or wonder about but how you chose to let that affect you is your decision.

Sometimes, theres nothing else you can do but let it go.